Maria Shrive can’t wait to have grandchildren
OHMYGOSSIP — Maria Shriver is looking forward to being a grandma! The NBC news correspondent — who raises four kids with Arnold Schwarzenegger — says her brood is growing up fast and she’ll soon be facing an empty nest.
“I think that if you’re awake in your life, you fear being alone,” the 58-year-old says in the December/January issue of AARP The Magazine.
“But if you face that fear, realizing that ultimately we all come in alone and will end up alone, you enjoy your alone company.
“Do I prefer a house with 20 kids in it? Yes. Do I feel that I can’t wait until they’re gone? No. But do I think I’ll be okay when they’re all gone? Yes. And I’ve worked to make sure they know that.”
While she still has one child in high school, her youngest, Christopher, 16, Shriver admits she’s already talking to her older kids — Katherine, 23; Christina, 22; and Patrick, 20 — about when they’re going to make her a grandmother. It’s something she can’t wait for.
“Christina says that when she has kids, she’s going to give them to me! I’m counting on that!” says Shriver. “If not, I’ll probably take someone else’s kids! I might start a day care center! Who knows?”
Maria split from her husband of 25 years Arnold in 2011, after learning that he’d fathered a child with the family’s longtime housekeeper. She says she’s had to re-imagine her life since splitting with her husband. “You have to be willing to let go of the life you planned in order to make the life you’re meant to live.”
And while her divorce is still not final, Shriver isn’t rushing out to find someone else to spend the rest of her life with.
“We’re so consumed as a society with ‘Do you have a boyfriend?’ or ‘Are you married?’ We miss the love that is staring you right in the face,” she says. “I’ve been blessed by my parents’ love, by the love I had with Arnold, by the love of my children and my friends … I feel surrounded by love. I feel blessed now here in my life. Yeah. I feel blessed.”