Pippa Middleton can’t be controlled

The sexy sister of Kate Middleton — who recently split from boyfriend Alex Loudon — is said to be upset that her life is being controlled by the royal family. “Pippa says she doesn’t know what’s expected of her and she feels like her life’s in limbo,” a source told Britain’s Now magazine.

“She confided in Kate she feels controlled and is having an identity crisis. She feels Kate has all the privileges that come with Royal life, but she gets all the limitations and responsibilities.”

Meanwhile, sources say Alex dumped Pippa because he became sick of coming second to her sister Duchess Catherine.

The former cricketer broke up with the 27-year-old socialite recently and although it has been claimed his family didn’t think she was “marriage material”, friends believe Pippa’s close relationship with her sister — who married Britain’s Prince William in April — put the relationship under strain.

“Catherine is always Pippa’s priority,” a source said.

“She puts her sister before anything else and this is likely to become more and more the case if Pippa becomes a lady-in-waiting. Pippa loves helping Catherine and is unlikely to budge in that sense when it comes to any relationship.

However, despite Alex’s concerns, party planner Pippa is reportedly hoping the couple can reconcile.

“It’s so hard for Pippa because she was always devoted to Alex, despite his concern and even now she would love to find a compromise that would save the relationship,” the source added.

“It’s understandable if she feels like her life is back to square one. Every other weekend she seems to be going to somebody else’s wedding, but suddenly she’s single. People think she’s been under siege from eligible bachelors since Catherine’s wedding. In fact all it’s done is drive away the man she loves.”