Kate Walsh isn’t as confident as she seems

The Private Practice star Kate Walsh admits she often second-guesses herself and is radically insecure.

“I second-guess myself all the time,” she said. “I make a decision and then wonder if I made the wrong choice. Sometimes I come off as confident, but really I am a quivering little wharf rat underneath who is radically insecure and deeply in need of love and understand.

“I have gone through ups and down, and it’s human nature for someone to judge and say, ‘Here’s what you need to do.’ But the most truly useful thing to do is to shut up and listen and tell the person that you’re there for them unequivocally.”

Walsh — who is divorced from Alex Young — also discussed the perils of dating in today’s tech-savvy world.

“Remember when you could mildly stalk a guy? Not anymore, man. They can be at your front door in five minutes. There’s just no mystery now.”