7 MASCULINE gestures that women would like to see more

OHMYGOSSIP – What kind of a woman didn’t wish to have a masculine, polite, caring, trustworthy, emphatic and understanding man? Unless you are a bachelor then you probably are a wonderful boyfriend, a great date or a loving husband. Still it is not rare that a couple that has as though happily been together for many years, breaks up.

What do women want? Usually women say what they want. And believe it, even though for you some of those little wishes may appear pointless, they mean A LOT to women. Yet what are the gestures that women secretly (by default) expect from men?

1. KISS

Nothing makes a woman feel warm and like home than a bye-bye kiss before going to work in the morning or a greeting kiss when arriving home. With a kiss, a man conveys a silent message to his woman that he is happy to see her or that he missed her. A true pearl for couples who are less outstanding in loud displays of affection. A good tradition is also the evening-time „good night” kiss or kisses from a distance. There can never be too many kisses!

2. HUGGING

Men – women like hugging and cuddling! Scientists have proven that hugging can alleviate stress and increase the levels of the hormone responsible for feeling good – oxytocin. Kisses on the forehead, cheek, nose. Women don’t need a full force love making session to feel desirable. Often it is the small kisses that are preferred, which show that the man wishes to keep the woman close to him and is not just there for the sex. The hugs and embraces are intimate yet non-sexual and offer women the feeling of closeness. Embracing as „after-care” is especially important for women after sex, this shows the partner’s affection and his wish to be together.

3. FLOWERS, SMALL GIFTS, A WARM MESSAGE

The little things are those that show a woman that their man was thinking about them, even if it was only for ten seconds. For sure, a woman will not say „no” to a bouquet of flowers. It suffices to remember on a small scale – to bring something that the woman likes from the store or sending a warm message, in case you are spending time in different rooms.

4. COMPLIMENTS

Lines like „you look very beautiful today” may get you far. Many women pay a lot of attention to the details of their look such as make-up, hair, nails, etc. And women that don’t usually direct their energy somewhere else – try to notice! When you are considerate with your partner and compliment the effort they have made, you give them pleasure and simultaneously become aware that they have done so partly or fully because they were thinking about you.

5. HELPING WITH THE COAT, OPENING THE CAR DOOR

Helping put on the coat and opening the car door may just be the last remnants of knighthood that are still in place amidst today’s era of gender equality. These gestures might as well surprise some women since they are not expecting them – thus making you a gentleman and making the woman feel like a lady. Even if you don’t do this on a daily basis, do so on big celebrations and theatre nights. It makes the event more festive and elevates every woman’s mood!

6. GIVE YOUR WOMAN TIME TO REST AND HER „ALONE TIME”

You might feel that you wish to be together all the time, but everybody needs some alone time. Time for complete solitude. Make your plans keeping that in mind. Also it is a good compliment when during some mornings you allow your woman to sleep longer and surprise her with morning coffee and pancakes.

7. HOLD YOUR WOMAN’S HAND

Women melt when they feel that their man wishes to defend them and are brought up well. It suffices when you are polite, place your hand on your woman’s lower back or hold their hand while leading them through a crowd. They feel that the man is caring and feel their presence physically as well as emotionally.

 

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Source: Ohmygossip.ee

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